Pacifying behaviors create distractions and work against us when we’re trying to influence others. Knowing what your pacifying behaviors are is the first step to getting in control of them. Do you know what yours are? If not, keep reading to learn more.

What Are Your Pacifying Behaviors?

We’re complex creatures navigating a complex world with challenges around every corner. When facing those challenges head-on, we will sometimes stumble and fall because of mistakes we’ve made or the actions of others. No matter the circumstance, our choices remain the same – assume the role of victim or problem-solver.

You’re a Victim Only When You Choose to Be

Most people’s executive functioning improves throughout life as their experiences shape these critical mental skills. However, it’s also possible to work on and improve the different components of your executive function to make you happier and more productive. I share a simple but powerful way to do this in this article.

A Simple Hack for Accessing Your Brain’s Executive Function

The Founder of a biotech startup decided it was time to add a Chief Scientific Officer (CSO) to his leadership team. After sharing this decision with his Director of Science, Amy, she began thinking about which of her peers and mentors would be perfect for the role. (Yep. You read that correctly. She didn’t even

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You Reserve the Right to Determine What Will and Will Not Influence Your Decision Making

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Learning to Change Your Mind with Confidence, Intelligence & Maturity

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Anxious About Returning to Work Amid COVID-19?

When my clients are discontent and complaining about how life is playing out for them, there are five questions I typically ask to get them thinking about the things they need to be thinking about to be more thoughtful and intentional with how they choose to move forward. I share those questions in this short video.

Questions to Ask When Feeling Discontent with How Life is Playing Out for You

The more accomplished you are, the more likely there will be bullies in your life trying to steal your success from you.

The most effective way to manage these bullies is to develop an unwavering level of mental toughness that can outlast any bully’s attempt to invalidate you emotionally.

Here’s my story…

A Powerful Life Lesson: Learn to Manage the Bullies in Your Life

A foundational principle upon which you can improve your communication skills is to remember that Psychological Egoism is always at play.

To dig into this principle, let’s begin with two questions…

Psychological Egoism is Always At Play