In this third installment of our exploration into irrational narratives and their impact on conflict resolution, we delve into the Villain Story, a counterpart to the Victim Story we explored earlier. These narratives intertwine to shape a dual standard of perception, one that amplifies innocence while simultaneously exaggerating guilt or stupidity. Continue reading to learn how to overcome this narrative and foster a more comprehensive understanding of complex situations.
The more accomplished you are, the more likely there will be bullies in your life trying to steal your success from you.
The most effective way to manage these bullies is to develop an unwavering level of mental toughness that can outlast any bully’s attempt to invalidate you emotionally.
Here’s my story…
After graduating from college, I accepted a position in the Corporate Marketing department for a large regional bank. Soon after that, I was promoted to Marketing Officer.
During one of my reviews, Doug, the Director of Marketing, said something to the effect of, “Starla, the executive team values and appreciates the quality of your work as well as your work ethic. That said, you’re a little rough around the edges. You may not realize this, but…