In the final installment of our blog series on irrational narratives and their impact on conflict resolution, we delve into the “Helpless Participant” narrative and the associated “Powerlessness Paradox.” This narrative often convinces us that we are powerless bystanders in challenging circumstances, leaving us resigned and passive. Continue reading to learn about seven actionable steps you can take to break free from this disempowering mindset, reclaim your agency, and contribute to positive outcomes in your life.
We’re complex creatures navigating a complex world with challenges around every corner. When facing those challenges head-on, we will sometimes stumble and fall because of mistakes we’ve made or the actions of others. No matter the circumstance, our choices remain the same – assume the role of victim or problem-solver.
The more accomplished you are, the more likely there will be bullies in your life trying to steal your success from you.
The most effective way to manage these bullies is to develop an unwavering level of mental toughness that can outlast any bully’s attempt to invalidate you emotionally.
Here’s my story…
At the end of my sophomore year in high school, three other students (Kara, Randi, and Wendy) and I were still in the running to be valedictorians of our senior class.
My least favorite class that semester was Botany, and you could tell because I was hovering right on the line between an A and B for my final grade.
Needless to say, I was beside myself when my final grade at the end of the semester was a B+. I cried elephant-sized tears for days while…